ozman, you're a better man than I am. If my W had told me that, I would have broken down. I hope I can react like you soon!
Some time ago, when I told my W love is more than a feeling, it's a choice ... she told me "I choose NOT to love you" and that completely broke me inside. I thought that was the worst thing you can tell somebody, but reading what was told to you gives me some perspective.
