In house does make it a little different, but I believe the goal is to get equal 50/50 splits. Lawyers are expensive.


One parent gets Thanksgiving this year, the other gets Xmas. Flips next year.



My X always has Xmas Eve. I always have xmas day. Kids show up at 9. They open presents at my house. We have the meal. Santa presents are easy to put out because they are with mom.




Local relatives make it easy for me to split holidays. If you or her want to travel during holidays, then full holidays might be an option for you.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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