Read your sitch, hopefully sandi will weigh in. In the meantime, you should read my threads:

https://www.divorcebusting.com/foru...ain=61151&Number=2778449#Post2778449

Ignore my actions and words, as I made a lot of mistakes, but read the advice I got. I think you will find it invaluable.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018