Here’s what’s awesome. As she said those words this morning they had NO effect on me. I just didn’t say anything back. I felt great afterwards.
Here is a catch. I’m curious of your guys opinion
She took a nosedive when I told her about new job. She started scrambling to find a way to declare bankruptcy so she can separate herself from me. She doesn’t believe this job will work out. So when she found out I’m leaving behind a steady paycheck she is ready to leave. The people around me think she is just staying for the security. And I agree with them. So when I’m making 10k a month and she changes her tune and wants to work on M...... I’m not down with that
Advice. Cause I’m much more than a paycheck. And based on her comments last night it doesn’t make a difference if I die from cancer or not
Thoughts
She may be. And you just pulled that rug out from under her. My guess is that she doesn't mean what she is saying. She is angry and hurt and lashing out. Remember believe NOTHING...NOTHING, positive or negative, that she says.
Just go crush it at your new gig.
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by ozman
W my life. I wish......... no...... you know what I’m gonna say it...... I wish I would have never married you, I wish I would have never had given birth to our son. I wish I had graduated high school and moved far away....
Great job staying strong!!
How about you give your W her wishes?? Just thinking out loud here. I AM NOT SAYING DO THIS.
Can you care for your S without her? What if she just up and left, would you be able to care for him alone? Can you give her a "Vacation" from you and son? Give her a real chance to miss what she has?
Anyway, congrats on the job. I guess we will have to pass on that beer. I plan on Deer hunting south east CO next weekend (Possibly Thursday and Friday as well).
I like this idea. Line up child care. Then sit her down and say "I understand you are unhappy. And that you do not want me, our S, or this family. So I have arranged for S to be cared for while I am at work. You are free to leave and start your new life.
Call her bluff.
R2C, good luck and be safe out there. I will be in the woods from the 14th-18th myself.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
