Argh! I hadn't thought of it like that, I did want to know, maybe i am suspicious but hadn't considered another man watching my kids.
I don't think she would do that, and deep down I do trust her decisions with the kid's.
Time for her to go out has come and gone without response, so I guess I really put my foot in it. It's these things I have to be really careful of. Otherwise it's just the same old fear based me.
So is it best not to mention it again? Not sure I can rectify this.