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Propose this:

Thanksgiving day with mother. Friday (day after) with father.
XMAS Eve with mother Xmas day with father.
Next year the opposite.

Exchange time 9AM.

she says she doesn't want to "split the holidays"

If she says this again,I would call her out on her BS.

You ABSOLUTELY want to split the holidays. In fact, you are the only one that wants to split the holidays. That was Divorce does.


If she agrees to Thanksgiving Xmas, then you propose:

Father new years eve and new years day this year. Mother next year.

If she brings up anything:

"I think it is best that we do not split it. I know that we may want to go to parties and might not be in the best shape to parent the next day"