Thanks everybody. I’m very excited. I passed all the interviews. Squared things away with my old boss. And I start Monday. I’m on terminal leave so I have a few days to myself! Very excited!
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H you seem down this morning W I am H what’s wrong W my life. I wish......... no...... you know what I’m gonna say it...... I wish I would have never married you, I wish I would have never had given birth to our son. I wish I had graduated high school and moved far away....
This was after last night when she told me she basically didn’t care if I died from cancer
Anyways I’m in a great mood today. I gotta go buy some nice clothes for the new job and I’m looking forward to it
Oz, this is fantastic! I am glad to see your W no longer can pull strings and change your mood, you DESERVE to be happy about this big change. She's not happy and she wants you to be as miserable and negative and mad at the world as she is, so she does her best to pull you down to her level and for a the longest time she was succeeding. Not now though, so well done! Actually this will be good for her too, because if you're happy when she's not then she'll start to realize that her negativity is coming from within rather than from you.
I used to post this every now and then, haven't in a while but this is what I used to tell people that asked what detachment is:
Not detached: W happy = you happy W sad = you sad W angry = you angry
Detached: W happy = you happy W sad = you happy W angry = you happy
