I then received 3 messages about 2 hours later. 1st saying how hard the meeting had been and the next 2 about daughters new school viewing and potential start date.
I didn't reply for half an hour. Validated that meeting sounded like it had been tough. And confirmed I would call the school to confirm tomorrow.
I then asked if she could let me know who was sitting the kids tonight and could we make sure everyone had everyone else's numbers ( I was originally supposed to be watching them until latest walls up)
That was 3 hours ago and no response, I feel it was the right thing to ask as their dad, now I'm sure she thinks it's some sort of crazy invasion of privacy or way to control her.
Now my brains doing loops as to whether to follow it up or drop it.
