Thanks everybody. I’m very excited. I passed all the interviews. Squared things away with my old boss. And I start Monday. I’m on terminal leave so I have a few days to myself! Very excited!
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H you seem down this morning W I am H what’s wrong W my life. I wish......... no...... you know what I’m gonna say it...... I wish I would have never married you, I wish I would have never had given birth to our son. I wish I had graduated high school and moved far away....
This was after last night when she told me she basically didn’t care if I died from cancer
Anyways I’m in a great mood today. I gotta go buy some nice clothes for the new job and I’m looking forward to it
Self-differentiation (detachment) is a wonderful thing! I tell newcomers all the time, when you get to the point where your spouse could come to you and tell you they had an orgy in a hotel with 10 other people, and your reaction is "Oh. Ok." Then you've achieved the right level of differentiation/detachment. It sounds like you are there. Remember, do not get caught up in her crazy. Empathize that her thinking is that way (I mean, a mother that wishes she hadn't given birth to her child!??!) because that has to be an awful place to be.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
