Recently ran into a string of bad luck. Long story, but some is related to the new house and some the old house which we are in the process of selling (got and accepted an offer). Anyway, the last three days have been one piece of bad news, or negative events, after another.
The good news is that my W and I have been a solid team through it! It feels so good. 2 years ago and the weeks following BD, I would not have believed any of this was ever possible!! Newbies, please listen: GAL, 180s, and loving detachment (self-differentiation) can WORK!! It isn't a guarantee to save your marriage, but it gives you a better chance than pressure and pursuit. Trust the process of DBing...see it through to the end. Remember, even D (as some others here have proven) doesn't mean the end.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
