I do not want a D, BUT the reality is I may have no choice in the matter. I need to let her go so she gets a feel for what she's lost. She is in a EA and not thinking at all, let alone clearly. The only way I can see it working out long term is for her to hit rock bottom and voluntarily make her way back to me, one small step at a time. I do not want my kids to have to deal with this, but they are going to have some discomfort no matter what happens. She thinks we are going to be "friends" and "co-parent" and everything will be great between us. She needs tough love. I would love to have Sandi2 weigh in also on my sitch!
