It's crazy, Jdevast. Lots of us have been through the same thing of being demonized by our WAS. I think alot of WAS's need to do this in order to continue to justify their shitty behavior. The over the top accusations, and exaggerated abuse claims
There's nothing you can do about it. Continue to carry yourself with grace and integrity. Don't let her bait you into a fight, and don't kiss her ass either. Stay right in the middle of the road. She wants you to blow up so she can say "See? You are an abuser!" and then carry on with whatever she feels is best for her.
Show her nothing but strength and continue to make your kids your #1 priority.
This right here is golden ! Read this and read it again and again .
Be calm , friendly and distant . Do not let her bait you . She doesn’t want to say hello or goodbye back ignore it but continue to be polite. smile and say hello and goodbye to your children .
How many people who are truly happy with their life don’t say hello or goodbye to people ? Non sense .
Work on not being so available . Let her feel you not there at the drop of a dime .
I think you are doing really great just work on getting a bit tougher with boundaries for yourself .
