A year on and standing

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Well since papers have been filed its going to have to be explained to families anyway. Who cares what she tells her family that's her problem. He can always tell his family that they are having problems right now. I don't see the point of playing happy family and this gives the opportunity to slowly transition into doing things separately which will also help with detachment.

Actually both families knows we are having problems and her family the full picture. Just that they are trying to be more supportive for the kids and leaving things to us to manage. I am actually joining her family at times as my in laws were hoping for me to be there. For now, I will go if I feel like it and not for her or for the hope of reconciliation but more for them. But I know will come a day if all comes to naught, I will not be joining for such occasions anymore.