I think I might just contact the L. All I actually would need to do is:
- Contact them - Pay (from joint account) - Get W to send copy of list to me and then I pass this on - They draft it presumably, we check it individually, change bits if needed, send back - Final court order sent to each of us
I think this is (a) easier, (b) protects me and (c) doesn't antagonise W - as I think she might be looking for instances where I've messed up during the D process, and I haven't done anything of the sort so far. Or at least I think her enablers are telling her to watch out for me in case I pull any fast ones on her.
I don't think stalling would be productive for either of us; I'm not out to point score or sabotage things.
So I suppose I do this and then just get back to GAL and PMA. If only I could win the lottery soon - would put my house worries to rest!
No worries mate anytime.
I'll echo the others in saying this is a good plan.
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24