Everything Dawn said. The way it was was written, you were mad you were denied sex because it was expected after you paid for the trip. And in one breath you said she doesn’t feel comfortable initiating and in the next you said she can be aggressive and this isn’t an ongoing issue. You kind of
And as far as her getting you “all geared up” , maybe she likes the foreplay and doesn’t need the sex part.
I think there Are bigger things going on here. As a FWB situation, no one owes anyone anything. No strings attached and that’s the glory of it. You have sex when you want, you don’t when you don’t, you aren’t obligated to anything because you aren’t a couple.
I think you want to be a couple and you are is muddy waters. So you want things as if you are a couple, but intimacy comes with wanting to please your partner. But you aren’t partners. FWB can be very muddy waters to navigate and make someone gunshy in that area. And often for women, the desire to go after sex comes with intimacy. And you aren’t a couple. So she is pretty much letting you guide the way and I think k you both might be a little afraid of stepping over boundaries that aren’t ver clear
