Weathering the Storm

[Coconut]

Dawn,

I can see why there is confusion, i guess im trying to not get to detailed and the generic statements aren't adding up. I'll say this, she has always been very willing to do anything I initiate, but there is very little that she has ever initiated.

In the case of Oral, i've only asked a few times, because with a woman you do that and still have intercourse, but it takes me a little while to reload or it may just end the night.. to me that feels selfish. I don't want to have to ask every time, she knows i'm a fan and I guess I am dissapointed that she didn't make a move, like I said, i'm pretty sure if I would have initiated it she would have, but that's not what I wanted.. I wanted her to show me that she wanted to do it.

as far as going even if i knew sex was off the table, that is without question true. But when you know sex is off the table, you don't build up the desire, i had been looking forward to spending some quality sexual time with her, it wasn't until after foreplay had started and I ASKED that she told me she was on her cycle. There was a lot of build up before I found out sex was off the table.