Coconut, if I’m being totally honest here...... you make it sound like she owes you sex because you paid for her vacation. That sounds a little prostituty.
Did she really have her period? If you didn’t want sex at that time, what was she supposed to do? Do you feel she shouldn’t have come if she wasn’t able to have sex with you? Did you feel like she owed you a BJ if she had her period?
You kind of make it sound like you only want to be with her if she is having sex with you or giving you some form of pleasure every time.
YES! SO much this! I wanted to say it seemed like you thought she owed you sex for going and your picking up the tab, but I don't know you and I don't think, even if that was what was on your mind, you would put it out there quite like that. I'm glad someone who actually knows you weighed in on that.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
