I had my 2nd IC session yesterday and am not so impressed as of yet. I’ve decided to give it one more shot next week before I start searching for a new IC
W is still staying in the guest room since I took my bed back a little over a week ago. (I spent 4 nights in a hotel and then a couple weeks in the basement when I came home)
W touched my arm yesterday as she walked by. It’s the first time she’s initiated any physical contact since we hugged a couple times when we agreed we’d both work on ourselves to see if there’s any hope for the M; nearly a month ago.
This morning, we had a quick, confusing, but funny convo about who’s ear buds are who’s. We were confusing each other and both just stopped and laughed. I had one foot out the door when she walked up and gave me a hug.
-This has proven to me that a single person can make changes that can impact the entire family (W included). I have never been a morning person and pre BD, I could easily leave the house with minimal energy and talking every morning. I’ve been waking up an hour earlier for the past few weeks to work out and by the time I’m ready to leave for work, I have more energy and am in such a better mood. It’s changed the entire family dynamic in the morning and it feels great.
