So today is the first court date in our divorce case. She did not agree to the parenting plan my attorney proposed. We were suggesting that we keep everything as is for now. Both living in marital home with kids. Apparently she has had an apartment since July. That explains where the mortgage money has been going.

She wants to move there with the kids. This brings up a lot of confusion for me. If she is in mlc why does she want the kids around? Is she reconnecting with them?

She has been so calm recently I thought that she was not going to pursue D.

I do see signs of her trying to reconnect. I spoke to my attorney about this and he said that we can stretch out D for up to a year in hopes that she will be towards end of mlc.

I really do think she is at the end of replay though. She is so calm and has been for months. She texted me the other day to see if I could pick up stuff from the store for her. The online ea is still around so I know she is still in replay.

I know every mlc is different but I'm hoping she moves beyond replay before D is final. If anyone has had a similar experience please share.