I should have known that once I posted about his lack of action, something would happen!
H dropped off our son this afternoon after his visitation. I was dressed to the nines in high heels and a cocktail dress thanks to a work function for the Melbourne Cup. I said we were heading straight out the door to sushi train for dinner. H made a joke about S1.5's train obsession. He shared something funny that S1.5 did at daycare and I laughed.
He then said he would work out a time with his friend to come and get the car. I said okie dokie. He noticed something had fallen onto his car in the garage and rushed to check it. I said is your car okay? He said it looked alright and my cats probably knocked it over. I said yeah, maybe.
He asked how the bank stuff was going and I said I'd email him. He asked if there was anything else and I said nope. He asked if he was coming over on Thursday morning and I said that's the plan. Despite the visitation schedule being solid and unchanging, except when he flakes, he consistently double checks and it is annoying. I didn't let on though. He said thanks for that and we all left.
Not sure why but that exchange left me with high anxiety. I'm sitting at sushi train with S1.5 still shaking.