Good point. It wasn't the front door, I didn't open the door to the master bedroom (where I sleep). I think she wanted to ask me if I could pick up one of the kids (which I had offered earlier). Instead she left and did it herself. But those are details, I think your point still stands.

When she came back she didn't bring it up again, she didn't dispute what I said, but it could be because she was done complaining about it. I'm more worried about her crying, between today and yesterday I've spotted her crying or get teary eyed at least 3 times. She's suffering, but I'm not sure exactly why, I can only speculate and I don't want to.