Geez I feel for D13. Sounds like she is growing up way too fast.
Do you think its good for XW to be involved in the counselling sessions? Probably is hey. If she keeps going of course.
She's not emotionally disconnected mate. The cracks show when she rages, dramatics etc. Read the MLC sticky 'why are they so distant'. Reading on compartmentalisation has really opened my eyes as well.
Stay strong brother.
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
