Originally Posted by Augusto
I don't know what's wrong with her from yesterday to today. Nothing I can do about it ...
Wrong.

Listen and understand how she is FEELING. Do not offer advice. Do not tell her everything will be OK.

Validate.

Keep your emotions out. Be neutral. Just listen to her story. It does not mean it is true. Do not argue. Listen to every word like you need to type it here exactly.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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