Thank you, i appreciate your advice. I've been looking at our phone logs and she does talk to her mom and sister quite often. She also talks to this single friend of hers that I dont know (I was able to look up her number). She talks to her quite frequently. I may be jumping to conclusions, but the thought of my W having a lesbian affair has crossed my mind. Ever since this new friend came into the picture is when things started to take a turn for the worst. I met her once and I remember the meeting being quite awkward. Usually her friends are nice and welcoming towards me, this friend was a bit standoffish.
My wife has an Iphone, so things are a bit more complicated when it comes to digging up information. I do feel like if I know the truth it will make it a lot easier for me to let go of my W.
When i was younger (19), I was married and my XW then cheated on me. Once I found out the truth, it was easy for me to say goodbye and kick her out. after which she came back crawling on her knees for me to take her back. maybe this process will happen again...
