Sorry OB but woman don’t stay out until 5:00am playing cribbage.
I hear ya. But she's living at home, hasn't moved out, no affair that we know of. With TS not doing any reconnaissance it is not the time to pretend like he's ready to go hardcore DB on her.
I think he's not going to do well with the hard approach. And getting all reactive to what she is doing is not DB. So to me it's more of going the detachment route. How is it going to look to her family when he doesn't show up to family stuff with the W and kids? His W won't say "Oh well I'm staying out all night GGW and therefore he is setting a boundary". She'll throw him under the bus.
By and large I agree with your sentiment, I'm just not sure what he can do with that.
TS, what is the "status" of your R?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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