Work on getting a regular amount deposited on a schedule. Negotiate the amount. Know your legal rights.
H:"I would like to reduce the confusion around money. I think it would be best if I deposited a fixed amount every week so we both can plan accordingly. How much do you think I should deposit?" W"Bla bla bla" H:"let me think about that." or "Sound good" or "We can't afford that, I was thinking more like XYZ"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712