A year on and standing

[ovrrnbw]

I see nothing horribly wrong with going on the trip and playing "happy family" because she is not involved with an OM and she hasn't moved out. Might there be things happening that we don't know about? Sure, but at the same time if TS knows of nothing, or if it is not a physical affair, then I'd go be AMAOFWL around her, the kids, and extended family.

As for the disrespectful things she says, just find a way to leave the room. You can't control, but you don't have to tolerate that stuff TS.