If she asked me right now I would not marry her, IMO it is way too early. She has not met key people in my family and honestly we have not spent enough time yet or had enough conversations about our future, blending families, finances, etc. She can bring up the R talks if she wants and I will certainly engage, discuss, etc. I do see a future with her and someone that I could potentially marry. She is a very sweet, kind, giving, and loving woman. She made me chicken soup last night, and she also gives me healthy snacks to bring to work (she packs them in sandwich bags for me, mixed nuts, protein bars, and oatmeal . When she is out at Sams or Costco she always calls me asks if I need something, I always say "no" but she always brings me back a new bottle of bourbon.
I know that's superficial stuff but that is kind of person she is. So I do see a future, I could see us definitely getting married some day. There is just a lot that we have to come together on, like I mentioned above that we have not even discussed.
To be honest I really enjoy my alone time when I have my girls. This week, I have complete peace and quiet to do what I want, when I want. If we get married and moved in together I back in full time noise mode with an 8 yr old boy running around. No peace and quiet after I drop my girls off. Yesterday, I laid on the couch for 8 straight hours, had a few beers and watched nothing but football. It was awesome!
. When she is out at Sams or Costco she always calls me asks if I need something, I always say "no" but she always brings me back a new bottle of bourbon.