Notified me she will drop kids over to me on Saturday morning and collect them following Saturday.
You can't make her want to see her kids even if you feel that's what is best for them.
Originally Posted by "JDevast"
Notified me son is sick, no open evening. Notified me she does not need me to watch kids Wednesday as she has got a sitter.
Are you okay with NOT seeing your kids until Saturday? Neither my partner nor I have ever denied scheduled custody due to illness, and many parenting plans include a "Right of First Refusal".. meaning before engaging babysitters or other 3rd party services, she should offer you the chance to watch the kids.
Originally Posted by "JDevast"
she is claiming welfare benefits for the kids living with her full time.
It definitely sounds like 2020 finances should be different than 2019 finances.