Shame and devastation 2

[Ready2Change]

You have moved out..Correct?? If you can't/wont move back in then:

Your kids are old enough for week on/week off schedule. I had a Mid week diner visit. I can elaborate more if needed.


Do you love your wife? Respect her boundaries.
Do you love your children? Get a 50/50 parenting plan put in place.



Learn to negotiate:
W:"I am hungry."
H:" How about we go get pizza?"
W:"I would rather have burgers."
H:"I had burgers for lunch. How about we go to Subway?"
W:"Sandwiches sound good, How about Jimmy Johns?"

If you don't like to option presented, present your own. Two alternate choices also works.



If your relationship with your children is important:

Get a written parenting plan ASAP. Get your place set up for kids. If not, get a different place ASAP.