I've been pretty good about not initiating texts with my W unless absolutely necessary.
Broke the rule last night, sent her a link to a youtube video I'm using for meditation/sleeping.
She responded, thanks. Then just went to ask me for $$$ for paying for one of our daughter's car pool. I fell asleep and saw that this morning. Then this morning she sent something like that again, saying that she has no money in her account right now, she proceeded to send me a screenshot of her checking/savings account.
Going to transfer money now, but it kind of irks me that she feels like she needs to send a screenshot of her account. Felt like telling her something about it but not sure if it's worth it.