Yes, I know it's a show. But she does have a name you know?
I agree, I don't plan on doing it very frequently. They get along just fine with each other, but I also don't want them to feel forced into an immediate family either. The house that I live in my girls grew up in so I am sensitive to that. I have no problems doing things together as a group, etc. but I don't want sleepovers either. I don't want my girls to feel uncomfortable. Her son seems to not care at all although he is rather immature.
We have also not discussed or had any in-depth discussions on parenting, expectations, or any of the little details about what it would look like if we got married. She is very strict with her son, doesn't give him an inch. Me, not so much. My girls want a snack, go get a snack. They want doughnuts, i'll be right back. She is not that way and is very regimented with him. So we have not had any of those parental discussions, or would we buy a new house, etc. etc. None of that has come up, so we have a ways to go.
If she wants to bring it up she can but it won't be coming from me.
