It's just so painful. And it's amazing how quickly the switch seems to flip in them to begin treating you coldly or like you're the dog poop stuck to the bottom of their shoe.
My WW has been in an EA (possibly PA) since mid-August and the only time we see or speak to each other now is when we exchange our S4 on Sundays in a retail parking lot. I equate it to trying to converse with a 14-year-old because all she does now is just mumble, avoid eye contact, and avoid answering any kind of question.
Yesterday her tactic was to message me two hours before exchange time and tell me we need to meet two hours later because they're going to take pictures. Come to find out the pictures were with my son, [AP], [AP's child], and my wife. I just said "Sounds great. See you then!"
But it is tough taking the high road. The divorce hasn't even been filed yet.
