Thanks CW, DS9 and Neffer,

It´s quite easy to have zero expectations these days. I think she´s ok for now but her life sounds like such a mess when she described it. She mentioned how she´s just alone all the time. Her best friend she doesn´t recognize anymore due to drugs(thank God my stbxw doesn´t have drug problems or an addictive personality), her other close friend travels to another country to visit her boyfriend as often as possible and will eventually move there.

So she hardly has any friends left except for one co-worker who also has a boyfriend she lives with. Sad to hear that but nothing I can do of course. Just have to leave her to deal with the mess she´s gotten herself into.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019