We started birthday dinner with kids and friends, had sushi. W joined us towards the end, she was kind a bit serious. Didn't sit next to me, but didn't sit far either.
In the meet she took a selfie with our daughter and both of us, and at dinner a group picture with all of us.
She asked if she could use debit card, but the balance in our shared account is super low, so I told her to go gas up, I'd follow and use my card to fill her tank.
Was going to open gas tank for her (it's a bit tricky in her card, you need to use a credit card to open the lid) she told me she knew how to do it. So just put card in, she asked me how much to fill up, told her just fill the tank.
Got in car with kids to drive home, she was tearing up/crying a bit when we left her. I don't know what's going on with her. She sent me a thank you text for paying for birthday dinner and gas. I think she may be crying because of lack of funds? Not sure.
She told me during dinner if I could stay with kids, that one of her friends is in the hospital and they need her to help. This is the family of a friend of hers from work, that I don't know very well at all, and she seems very involved with their family. They don't have a lot of money and I think some of them don't speak English very well so she claims to be helping them quite a bit. It's a bit strange to me but not sure what to think ...