I’m one who thinks you should do some recon. A quick google search will tell you how to investigate without her knowing. Don’t let on though. Never let on what you know. I don’t think you can fix this until you know for sure what you are dealing with.
Kas99, Do you think that by doing that it will cripple my ability to detach? I feel like if i keep trying to figure it out I will become obsessed with it. Was looking into voice activated recorders etc but man maybe i'm still in denial that i'm in this situation right now.
Her phone is blowing up as we speak and she's buried in it. All I want to do is grab it from her and see who she is texting with all day. It's killing me. How much more could I mess things up if I did that? Honestly?
