I should clarify, Sandi, that she did give me back the cards she had from my accounts. So it went both ways. We will see about her intent to pay them within the next few days as they are due. My guess is she won’t have enough to pay the whole balance, but she will pay what she can. I hear what you are saying and will protect myself. But I truly am not concerned about her maxing out my accounts for her plane tickets etc. She most definitely does not want me to know about them or have documentation of it, for one.
I hear you about it being pointless to confront her about the plane ticket and that’s why I have not done it. However, I think part of the reason she was so tight lipped about not admitting or discussing the A is because she does not know how much I know and is calling my bluff in a way. I won’t lie and say part of me doesn’t fantasize about telling her to have fun in xxx state and eliminate any possibility in her mind that I don’t really know anything. I realize this is classic LBS thoughts thinking we can ruin the trip by sending ice into their veins when in reality she probably does not care.
Yesterday she asked what time she could come by the house to grab some things when I would not be there. She then actually asked me if I had time to pack her stuff! I told her I do not and that was that. I went out GAL and wasn’t even thinking about her while she was there. I do still feel there is some testing, such as asking if I would help her pack. Or the fact she asked if I dug in the trash for her depressing note she told me she wrote while I was at the funeral. I had the thought that she told me that as some game so I would go looking and sure enough she asked if I did the night I kicked her out. She also said that night, that I do not know her. But the fact is I feel like I know her better than ever and can see exactly how she works.
