I'm not meaning to put any pressure on her, do you mean by trying to be friendly in texts or by wanting to negotiate child care. Is nc right in this sitch, I'd been trying to show a Pma and be more open as a 180. But yes I have been trying to placate her.
Can I turn this around? Is it advisable I just go nc, is the goal just to give her space, is this placating her more?
Is this more of just giving her what she wants to pursue her single life.
Should I maintain friendly Pma in texts etc or be more reserved.
I guess I feel being distant is exactly what caused the db.
