Hi LH19 So bonfire night is a UK holiday , generally lighting of bonfires and fireworks. We always took the kids to displays.
I moved out because she basically demanded I did, labelled every wrong word I'd ever said, every lack of affection and intimacy over our entire relationship as abuse.
She was so angry I in equal parts wanted to avoid conflict and avoid causing her any damage or pain.
In hindsight it may have been a mistake.
I have done everything she's wanted to make this easier for her ,maybe in an attempt to placate her and nice her back.
