Congratulations RAI! That is great news. Haven’t seen any of your recent posts.
I am definitely in that early stage of infatuation and limerace. I have never really experienced that before with someone. I know to keep myself grounded and to stay aware of red flags. It’s just he really does have every thing i have ever wanted in someone - and then tells me how he feels so lucky. It’s great because the feelings are deep and mutual. And we love getting to know each other and spending time with each other. I’m think we are older and have each experienced what we don’t want. We have both come from some people with serious dysfunction too, so I think we just appreciate how easy things have been. We have similar parenting styles, and we both communicate well with each other. He is super rational and I feel safe that he’s not the type to twist things on me if something does come up. Like he doesn’t have that need to be right or to function solely on his own regardless of my thoughts He just wants to make things work and to be part of a partnership.
I do worry though. Like what if it is just limerace for him? What if he likes me because He likes how I look and likes the excitement of new love and is attracted because of the attention he gets from me who is Also in limerace and then after 3 years starts to feel that way about a new girl that gives him attention? Thats my fears coming through though and something i guess I feel vulnerable about.
