Her friends let her know that you were out having a good time. She's mad at the world, herself and everything else. She is having a tantrum like a 2 year old. I wouldn't worry about her being irked. She'll get over it. They do not like to see and/or hear that we are living our lives and are moving on. They want us to remain right where they left us.
J, continue as you have been...listen and validate. Live your life to the fullest and you know what you can or can't do on your schedule w/your children.
Leave her be for now. Give her time and space and when she gets over her little snit, she'll be back to being somewhat friendly.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
