There is much similarity in the growing up needed for a MLCer and an adolescent teenager. The MLCer is just cranked to 11 is all; much much more irrational.
At five years out you do sound great. Sitting by the fire and enjoying the peace of your life. It’s wonderful.
S17 is growing up just fine; he’s got a great example in you. Undoubtedly he will still push your buttons and test your boundaries. Kids are supposed too, they need too; it’s part of growing up.
My D17 is following a similar path as her three brothers; boy vs girl does change things a bit though. In five more years your S17 will be S22; like my oldest. They do a lot of growing up, it’s something to see.
How is other son doing? I’m unsure if he is 15 or 19; following or leading.
It was really good hearing from you. Have a great a Sunday.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
In five more years your S17 will be S22; like my oldest. They do a lot of growing up, it’s something to see.