I just don't know how to go about investigating. I check our phone logs and see that she's talking a lot to her mom and sister, and also a single female friend that she's been in contact with since she dropped the bomb. My W had many lengthy conversations with this friend. Is she swinging the other way now? Or is my mind making up stories that mess me up even further? She's always on her phone and very protective of it, so theres no way I could grab it from her unless i'm upfront and ask that I see her phone. I guess I just have to bank on the truth coming to light one way or the other...
You could be one of the lucky ones. Maybe she is just a WAW, and not a WW. Talking with family and friend is good, hopefully they are pro-marriage. I would not confront her or accuse her of anything worse at this point if you don't have concrete evidence.
My WW pretty much has stayed away from her family and friends. My WW also uses iMessage and Facetime to talk with OM, so it doesn't show up in cellular call logs.
Originally Posted by kbuenob
Any tips on getting more sleep? I'm starting to become worried because I've been running on fumes not getting sufficient sleep and food these days. This is rough as i can't focus on my work either.
Not sure, everyone goes thru this and it takes time. I still can't focus at work and just try to fake it through most days and make sure I get priorities done. Some people suggested getting anti-depressants, but you need to be careful with that and taper off it.
I find that reading this forum, reading relationship books, and watching YouTube videos on relationships helps me with my emotions and feel less isolated to fall asleep - make sure to clear your YouTube search + history. I lost a bunch of weight, so I remind / force myself to eat. Working out will also help.
