steve, lovingit

I just don't know how to go about investigating. I check our phone logs and see that she's talking a lot to her mom and sister, and also a single female friend that she's been in contact with since she dropped the bomb. My W had many lengthy conversations with this friend. Is she swinging the other way now? Or is my mind making up stories that mess me up even further? She's always on her phone and very protective of it, so theres no way I could grab it from her unless i'm upfront and ask that I see her phone. I guess I just have to bank on the truth coming to light one way or the other...