So you understand how puppy dog tails would deal with it. You also saw MWD view point on some of the more controversial ideas. RobX Gucci have some good points as well. Coach was amazing Vet here.
I did not go looking for OM. That might not have been the best option.
If there is deception going on, I believe it is good to know that. Most guys that find out, do the wrong thing and confront too early, let there emotions control their actions and make things worse.
NEVER reveal WHAT you know. NEVER reveal HOW you know.
At the proper time , only reveal that you DO know. "We both know that is not true. If you tell me the truth , I will listen, otherwise I have better things to to than listen to lies"
It says SOME recon. If you choose this path, do not be obsessed. Only get enough to know what you are TRULY dealing with.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712