So I'm thinking I at least need to put this out in front of her , let her realise some of the consequences. Looking for advice as to whether I should just float this out there with her. "I'm thinking it might not be best I stay in this small town"
Hi JDevast, I'm not sure why you'd "float" the idea to her--it sounds like fishing for a reaction. If you feel moving away is best for you and your kids, plan the move, and give her reasonable notice.
Originally Posted by "JDevast"
To be honest kinda feels like an ultimatum. May backfire.
I'd be more worried about how your kids would feel.