Shame and devastation

[Jdevast]

So I've just had an offer from a friend to move back to London.find work there.

It would be a huge wrench and cause more distance between my wife and kids.

To be honest I have done everything she's wanted to make this seperation easier for her, I think in an attempt to nice her back.

So I'm thinking I at least need to put this out in front of her , let her realise some of the consequences.

Obviously I wouldn't see my kids as much ,but she wouldn't be pulling my strings

Looking for advice as to whether I should just float this out there with her.

"I'm thinking it might not be best I stay in this small town, everyone knows each other ,all the social scene is entwined etc etc.