Particularly good michelle weiner-davis questions we all need to ask ourselves:
What was your role in this ? The break down of the marriage? How did you play a part in that ? What do you accept as your shortcomings ? What is MLC fluff ? What "stung" How do you envision your future? Are you willing to sell yourself just to have your marriage back ? What are YOU worth as a person? Can your soul be replaced if you give it away for a relationship ? who are YOU ? Don't give me Father, Husband, and all of that stuff either.. YOU !! ???? How can you be anything for anybody if you don;t know you? What values do YOU own, if you sacrifice them ? When you can answer all of those....then you will know where your line in the sand is....
What are your limits ? What is your tolerance ? What defines you ? What are your fears? What are your strengths?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712