It just feels strange to basically just sit back, let go, and say "oh well!" I think as a male a lot of times we feel that we have to fix things. Like I feel like I should write her a letter or something telling her I'm sorry for my part in the failure, etc. But I know the best action to take is nothing at all especially given the circumstances we are in now.
Just weird to see what I thought was a decent (not great) marriage with someone I was so close that I considered her my best friend go to a less than 2 minute exchange once a week in a retail parking lot with no interaction other than short, business-related items.
As a lot of our friends have said: it just all happened so fast. We were fine, great, getting along, etc. and then the next she was gone and no longer even looks or speaks to me.
I guess I just figured there would be more fighting towards the end. More hostility that would end up at the point that we both just said "Screw it.. We're done!" But reading MWD's articles I see that the way this played out is very common as well. I just don't know how I could ever trust another woman again.. Like what's even the point of getting married?
My life's motto has literally just become: "Oh well."
