Originally Posted by "DaB35"
However, on 15 May she had emailed me - a long "how could you" email - and said "We are officially separated, and will be divorced soon after." So I guess around 24 hours she decided to D.

Yours is the fastest, most whirlwind divorce I've ever seen!

(And, ostensibly for something few would divorce over.)

Good job keeping on.

Originally Posted by "AnotherStander"
They alienate people who don't agree with what they are doing and draw people to themselves that do support them. So don't sweat the enablers, they are not the cause of this, your W is.

Truth. I had this same misunderstanding early on. At the time of separation, my partner shifted which friends she hung out with most, and now that we're back together, she's shifted back.

Last edited by CWarrior; 11/01/19 07:22 PM.